I’m 24, very poor, female, don’t drink, don’t have many friends and am a virgin?

♦ August 18, 2010 ♦ 3 Comments

(Recently, I started my new job in an office that i will be spending several hours with each day. while we all know how to have a good laugh, we just aren’t clicking. I’m a completely different person and i feel that my politics are going to get in the way of keeping a happy workplace. My entire team loves to go out for drinks and often talks about marriage and kids, and i have discovered we share nothing in common. I am feeling very isolated as I will never drink alcohol nor have i even had sex at my age. Being poor has made it very difficult to connect online or leave this small town with no men my age that also don’t drink. it’s also made it difficult for me to stay in shape, and im very self-conscious. i find myself not being to connect with others because i have nothing to talk about and i want to connect with them. what should i do?)

Answer :

sounds like me at 24 except that i was married —- and i had been told that my advancement depended upon going and having a drink with the boys every friday night —- so every friday night i went home as drinks with the boys is the last thing i have ever wanted to do —- i have tried to fit in over the years and ive not really done it —- so do what you feel comfortable doing and if you find someone who you can talk to then all the better but maybe plan to move on get some money together and find a new home and new work —- best wishes

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