Little long but I really need help! 10 Points :)?

First off, kudos that you feel you abused the trust your parents gave you! You’ve already gone halfway, and that’s recognizing what you did wrong. I totally see WHY you’d think you’ve done wrong and that you feel weird about it, but you technically did nothing wrong. It does depend on your age though, since the answer differs depending on that. The younger you are, the wrong-er it gets.

If the need is mandatory, you can tell your parents honestly what you did. Explain to them that you’re feeling utterly sorry and regretful almost and that you’d want their trust again. Parents should expect these kinds of things to happen with their adolescents, so they should ultimately understand. The main reason, most likely, that they were slightly hesitant to leave you two alone was because they were probably afraid of you two having sex or something but you didn’t and that’s pretty much the bulk of it!

But like I said, only if you genuinely feel the need to tell them, you don’t HAVE to. It was his shirt and his shirt only that came off. If it were yours, then that would be a lot different. I mean, guys go swimming with their shirts off so it’s not that major. You shouldn’t feel guilty, simply because there’s no BIG reason to. If it’s easier, you can even tell your boyfriend about it, and see what he says. It’s better and healthier to get these types of things off of your chest rather then caging it in. And, if it’s not going to be your parents you tell, it should be your boyfriend OR a good friend.

Good luck, and I hope this helps!

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